Online Account Instructions for Your Executor: A Melbourne Carer’s Plan for an Aging Parent’s Digital Life

You’re caring for an aging parent in Melbourne. They’ve had the same Hotmail address since 2003, a Telstra webmail account no one quite remembers the login for, a Facebook profile their grandchildren tag them in, an iCloud library with twenty years of family photos, and a Woolworths Rewards card that somehow accumulates more points than yours. The will names an executor. The plan is to leave that executor a clear inventory of which accounts exist and how to approach each provider — without ever sharing a password.

The problem

Australian families routinely lose access to a deceased person’s email, photos, and social accounts because no one knew the accounts existed in the first place. Provider deceased-user processes vary widely: some require a death certificate and a grant of probate, some accept a next-of-kin form, some have no formal process at all and the account simply locks. ASIC’s MoneySmart estate planning guidance is clear that the executor’s job is to identify and administer assets — but digital accounts are invisible unless someone wrote them down.

For an aging parent, the risk compounds. Memory may already be fragmenting. Accounts set up across two decades sit behind email addresses your parent themselves may not recall. If the executor inherits a death certificate, a will, and no inventory, they are reduced to guessing which providers to contact. Photos from your parent’s life — the ones on iCloud, in Google Photos, in a Dropbox folder from 2014 — can be effectively locked forever.

What the Digital Legacy Vault does

The Digital Legacy Vault is an asset-instruction register: you (or your parent, with your help) record what online accounts exist, the username or email identifier for each, whether a provider-level recovery contact or legacy contact has been configured, and what your parent wants done with each account on death — memorialised, closed, archived, downloaded. The simplified version (built for individuals and families) records the inventory and the executor’s instructions; the vault does NOT store passwords, recovery codes, or 2FA seeds.

The boundary matters. The Digital Legacy Vault holds instructions about what exists and how your executor can find it — not credentials, not recovery phrases, not the accounts themselves. That’s what keeps the vault outside the AFSL regime and outside AUSTRAC reporting, and it’s what lets it operate as a simple subscription rather than a regulated custody service. The Privacy Act still applies to the personal information you record about your parent and the executor — the vault treats both as protected personal information under the Australian Privacy Principles.

How it works

  1. You sit with your parent (or work from what they can recall plus a sweep of their inbox) and add each online account to the vault — provider name, username or email identifier, account type, your parent’s wishes for closure or memorialisation.
  2. Where the provider offers a legacy contact or recovery contact feature (Apple, Google, Facebook all do), you configure it directly with the provider and record in the vault that it’s been set.
  3. You name the executor as the recipient for the online-accounts module. The vault records their consent to receive the instructions.
  4. When release conditions are met, the executor is notified per your rules and sees only the online-accounts inventory you prepared — not your parent’s other modules unless released.
  5. The executor contacts each provider through that provider’s deceased-user process, using the inventory plus the death certificate and probate grant. The vault accelerates the enumeration step — knowing which accounts to contact — which is the step that usually fails.

Why this matters in Melbourne

Melbourne households skew older in many suburbs, and aging parents here often hold a particularly long digital tail: BigPond and Optusnet email accounts that predate the modern providers, Australia Post MyPost accounts tied to old addresses, MyGov linkages, and decades of family photos scattered across iCloud, Google Photos, and Facebook. Executors administering a Victorian estate work under the Supreme Court of Victoria’s probate process, and the practical bottleneck is rarely the legal step — it’s the months spent trying to identify what digital accounts existed at all. An inventory prepared in advance turns a guessing game into a checklist.

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Join the waitlist — first access when the Digital Legacy Vault opens for Melbourne carers

We’re opening waitlist access in tranches. Sign up to be notified when carers organising an aging parent’s affairs in Melbourne can register their first online-accounts module. The Digital Legacy Vault holds instructions about what exists and how your executor can find it — not your parent’s passwords, not their recovery codes, and not their 2FA seeds.